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Did You Know You Can Send THAT In the Mail?

Staying connected by sending gifts in a unique way through the mail

Staying in touch through the mail

Did You Know You Can Send THAT In the Mail? 
To make connections, strengthen relationships and build family foundations, this is the BEST FUN way!

Who doesn’t like to get mail that isn’t a bill –  but a treat or a gift?  EVERYONE, that’s who.

Did you know you can mail just about anything?

For example you can mail a coconut, just as it is without putting it in a box or wrapping it up – simply as it is, by either writing, or taping an address on it? Isn’t that the coolest thing ever!

Think of the possibilities.  This post is part The Lost Art of Relationships. What better way to strengthen, mend or to reach across the miles than to send a surprise to a brother, sister, mom, dad, grandchild, child, in-law, niece or nephew, aunt, uncle — you get the idea. 

Also, what a wonderful approach to softening hearts if that is needed. It’s a comfortable way of letting someone know you are thinking of them, or even starting a conversation. 

And, boy do I have some FUN ideas for you, come on and just see what I have put together.


I wanted to make sure how things would work in the mail, so to experiment, I visited the post office quite a bit.
Well, I can tell you with confidence, that you can mail pretty much anything what you can think of.
*The only restrictions I would recommend are to watch the weight and size of the item(s), because that is what makes the difference in the price.  The large dimensions or heavy weight might be a bit into your budget, so use care with that. And I know this applies in the contingent USA, not sure about outside the U.S.; you’ll have to check if outside in another country, or sending to Alaska or Hawaii.

I have mailed puzzles right in their own box.
Candy in its own wrapper.
Balls – YES balls!  The larger ones at the Dollar Store. The postman was so excited. my kids reported to me, that he brought it right the door for the grand kids. 
A box of fruit snacks and fruit roll ups, as they are when purchased at the store, among many other items.

One thing I didn’t send, but a postal worker said they saw come through was a baseball bat.  Just the bat!  The sender had written a little note on the bat with a sharpie marker, then taped the sender and recipients address, on the bat itself.  What a cool gift!
I have some ideas for you!!!
What little girl wouldn’t love receiving ELSA [1] or ANNA  [2] in a bottle/container/OR the Party in Bottle you’ll see below!  How fun would that be!!!
For a toddler boy look HERE [3]
For a teenage girl or a woman try these socks HERE [4]
For a teenage boy or man try this HERE [5]
This CANDY [6] could be sent as it is
I found an inexpensive and sturdy box, lined it with fun tissue, then bubble wrap.  
You can fill with cookies, brownies, peanut butter bars, whatever treat or CANDY like HERE [7]  if you want, but make sure it is dense treat so it travels well. Tape it up with fun duct tape like  one of THESE [8]which I also used to tape around the address and then shipped it off. 

The black print tape was on a tub of cotton candy and it sailed right through.  The box of M&M’s didn’t squish or munch.  As you can see even the middle package with individual packs (the brown print) of candy made it across several states.  I wasn’t sure if it would pop since it is filled with air, but it made it just fine! 

This is a GREAT idea….ok…in my humble opinion, I think it’s a great idea anyway. 
Take an empty can of Pringles potato chips and wipe it out. 
Then fill it with cookies, candy or treat, part of the way up the can.I put a little note inside of a sandwich baggie, then tucked it inside with the cookies.The reason I put the note in a baggie, is so that it wouldn’t get greasy from the oils of the cookies or whatever treat was in the can, and then continued to fill up the canister.Next cut a piece of waxed paper and a piece of construction paper the same size as the lid to go over the cookies to cover them.  
Tape with fun duct tape or packing tape.  Address and send.  

Look at this! I put addresses right on the toys and they made it!Be creative, things right in their own packing works well too. Look around your house at all the different kinds of bottles or canisters you can use to send treats or gifts in.  It just needs to be sturdy.

New mom’s, or mom’s-to-be would be thrilled to get a gift like one of these in the mail!
It could be the Barefoot Baby Sandals, click HERE [9] for my tutorial.
Or the Binki Clips, click HERE [10]to see step-by-step tutorials for these useful and appreciated gifts.
The Christmas and holiday pails/tins work terrific for those hard to fit items.  Seal, then tape the address on the outside and away they go.   Watch for after holiday sales for plain colored tins to use any time of the year.  With your canister/container, you can put just about anything that abides by the post office standards.
If you have a store with the bins of candy, go get a little bit of this and that to put in your container.  It does not have to be full,  if it will not be damaged; it can rattle around while shipping and be fine, if an item that won’t be damaged of course.

HUGE TIP:   I found out the hard way that if there is a coating on a ball, or a toy like this, you cannot simply tape the address on it to send. Because it will tear off the top layer when the receiver wants to take it off….oops. Don’t forget older boys and teen guys. 
Tool boxes or canisters can hold the duct tape they love.  How fun would it be to send a teen (IF appropriate, you know your family) the tool box with the tape and a treat with the lock on it.
THEN, send the key in a separate envelope or container!   Most like a good joke, but again, you know your family. A boy would love the cars coming in a fun mystery container.  What surprise this would be!A tween or teen girl is sometimes difficult to get a gift for.  But what about holiday themed or every day socks or booties?  They always enjoy these!  And in a clear plastic jar, or a fun type as shown above, it would make her day better!

If you have a huge fan of anything, such as the super hero’s (or a certain theme) YOU would certainly be their super hero with this package. 
*On Amazon I found some lunch boxes that were being discontinued or marked down like the one pictured pictured below; for example I found a Disney Frozen one HERE [11] for super inexpensive. Just search a bit and you’ll be surprised at the fun you can have with this!Candy for ANYONE is always appreciated.  If you know someone is having a hard time, needs a pick-me-up, thinking-of-you, or just-because, here’s an idea.                

If you have a special girl in your life, here is an idea (*the size and shape will affect shipping)
Lay your choice of ribbon across the box you want to use. Then tissue on top of the ribbon.  You can put anything you’d like in your special box.  I put in TuTu’s that we made on a post.  You can see the detailed EASY instructions HERE [12].
I added some glow sticks on top for extra fun. Pull the tissue up around the contents carefully and tuck it in, then the ribbons, and tie them up and give them all a curl.  A note on the inside to the recipients as well as the address for the mail carriers. Fun duct (as I linked to above) tape to keep it together makes it extra special. 
 Delivery and the result—- smiles all around! 

Would you like to send a PARTY IN A BOTTLE? 

It’s easy and I’ll show you how!

First rinse out a large pop bottle and allow it to dry thoroughly.
Take off whatever of the wrapper you can, but don’t stress (you will cover it up anyway).
Make a slit of about 4″-6″ Cutting over where the label is, so over the glue because you will cover this area with the address anyway.Into the slit you just cut, stuff COLOR SHREDS HERE [13], confetti, WIRE GARLAND [14] really, anything your heart desires.
Have fun, remember, you are making a PARTY in a BOTTLE!

Then slip the gift in, keep in mind where it is going, and if it will it melt before reaching its destination. 

If it is  hot, do not send chocolate, that is my recommendation. 

DOUBLE LAYER the paper, by folding it over itself after printing or putting another piece on top of itself.  

Simply tape the address over the slit to cover any label that you couldn’t remove

Everyone will be amazed at how YOU took a minute to send a little MAGIC in the mail 

Copyright Carrie Groneman, A Mother’s Shadow, 2015, 2017
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